Before I had kids, no one told me about the tremendous amount of guilt that I would feel about what I was or wasn't doing right for my children. Sometimes the guilt really gets to me, and I know that I am not alone in this. Lately, the weight of the guilt has really been getting to me. In an effort to purge my soul of some of this guilt, I am introducing, "Mommy Guilt Monday". This may not be a weekly feature (even though there is plenty of material). Feel free to play along.
Today's topic - Chase's sport development
Chase has wanted to play football for years. The money and time commitment were more than we felt we could afford. We did let him play flag football last year, but never tackle football. This year he was able to play on the school team. He is loving it, but he is at a disadvantage since he has never played before. The mommy guilt hits. I feel guilty for not providing him with the opportunities to play football in the past so that he would have had the experience that he needed in order to play better this year. Guilt, guilt, guilt.
This week, Chase will be trying out for the basketball team. Ask me if he has played basketball before.